1874. Emily Trelfer is born Brighton Dec 22/10/1874 to parents George Trelfer & Emily nee Hayllar
I wonder if she knew that not only her father & grandfather, but also 2 greatuncles spent long periods in the Brighton Workhouse, likely dying there.
1881C. Emily Trelfer at 6 Barrowcliffe Cottages Brighton with parents George, 24, jeweller, Emily 24 laundress & siblings Nelly & Amelia , all b. Brighton. her future husband, John Smith, was living at 3 Barrowcliffe Cottages in this census.
| TRELFER, George | Head | Married | M | 24 | 1857 | Jeweller Working |
Brighton, Sussex | ||
| TRELFER, Emily | Wife | Married | F | 24 | 1857 | Jeweller Working Wife Laundress |
Brighton, Sussex | ||
| TRELFER, Emily | Daughter | Single | F | 6 | 1875 | Scholar |
Brighton, Sussex | ||
| TRELFER, Nelly | Daughter | Single | F | 4 | 1877 | Brighton, Sussex | |||
| TRELFER, Amelia | Daughter | Single | F | 2 | 1879 | Brighton, Sussex |
1891C. Almost certain she is Emily Trelfer, 17, mistranscribed as Trager!, working in Hove as a domestic servant
| POSTLETHWAITE, Cornelius | Head | Married | M | 20 | 1871 | Confectioner & Green Grocer |
Brighton, Sussex | ||
| POSTLETHWAITE, Hepzibah | Wife | Married | F | 22 | 1869 | Eastbourne, Sussex | |||
| TRAGER, Emily | Servant | Single | F | 17 | 1874 | Domestic Servant |
Brighton, |
or, maybe calling herself Kate Trelfer, 18, working as a domestic in Preston.
1891C. She is missing from the family at 1 Boss Garden Brighton. 3 more siblings have been born 1882-1889. Also living with them is George Hayllar, Emily's maternal grandfather.
| TRELFER, George | Head | Married | M | 34 | 1857 | Working Jeweller |
Brighton, Sussex | ||
| TRELFER, Emily | Wife | Married | F | 34 | 1857 | Ironer |
Brighton, Sussex | ||
| TRELFER, Ellen | Daughter | Single | F | 14 | 1877 | Brighton, Sussex | |||
| TRELFER, Amelia | Daughter | F | 12 | 1879 | Brighton, Sussex | ||||
| TRELFER, Elizabeth | Daughter | F | 9 | 1882 | Brighton, Sussex | ||||
| TRELFER, Florence | Daughter | F | 7 | 1884 | Brighton, Sussex | ||||
| TRELFER, Alice | Daughter | F | 2 | 1889 | Brighton, Sussex | ||||
| HOYLLAR, George H | Boarder | Single | M | 60 | 1831 | Jobbing Carpenter |
Brighton, Sussex |
1899. Emily Trelfer married John Smith Dec 1899 Brighton . According to family legend, they actually met in Coventry!, but this now altered with the discovery that John's sister, also an Emily, was born in Coventry in 1862!
First child John Leslie Smith was born Mar 1900 Brighton .
1901C Emily Smith, 26, living 10 Foundry Street Brighton in 4 rooms with her husband & son . With 4 rooms, it seems odd that she did not take care of any of her younger siblings, Alice, & probably William & Queenie, who were in Brighton Workhouse with their father, George Trelfer.
| SMITH, John | Head | Married | M | 24 | 1877 | Pier Erector |
Scotland Lockerby | ||
| SMITH, Emily | Wife | Married | F | 26 | 1875 | Brighton, Sussex | |||
| SMITH, John L | Son | M | 1 | 1900 | Brighton, Sussex |
1905. Daughter Phyllis Amelia Smith was born
1911C Emily Smith, 36, living 36 Redcross Street Brighton in 4 rooms with her husband & 3 children . She had been married 11 years, 4 children, all living
| SMITH, John | Head | Married | M | 33 | 1878 | General Labourer | Locksby Scotland Resident | ||
| SMITH, Emily | Wife | Married11 years | F | 36 | 1875 | Sussex Brighton | |||
| SMITH, John | Son | M | 11 | 1900 | Sussex Brighton | ||||
| SMITH, Winifred | Daughter | F | 8 | 1903 | Sussex Brighton | ||||
| SMITH, Phylis | Daughter | F | 5 | 1906 | Sussex Brighton | ||||
| SMITH, Leonard | Son | M | 0 (3 MONTHS) | 1911 | Sussex Brighton | ||||
| EDWARDS, Thomas | Boarder | Married | M | 47 | 1864 | Labourer | Kington Magna Dorset | ||
| CARTER, William | Boarder | Single | M | 40 | 1871 | Labourer | Hampshire N K |
"Leonard didn't live long about 9 months from what we'd call probably a cot death today. John was known as Jack. Winifred Elsie Smith died young- actually in 1943! . She had a foot deformity. There was another sibling Doris born after the 1911C and she had a son whom she called Leonard, after her dead brother. Cousin Leonard is still alive and kicking and lives just outside Newhaven in Sussex"
Leonard C Smith died Brighton Dec 1911
So, 4 children survived childhood, John/Jack,Winifred, Phyllis & Doris
Doris M Smith was born Brighton Jun 1913. She married 1936 Herbert Fuller & had a son Leonard, still alive in 2013.
1939 Register 24 Mountfield Road, Lewes
| Emily | Smith | 22 Oct 1874 | Female | Unpaid Domestic Duties | Married | 27 | 2 | ||
| John | Smith | 23 Aug 1874 | Male | Signal Lineman Sr | Single | 27 | 1 | ||
| Winifred E | Smith | 23 Dec 1902 | Female | Tailoress Unemployed | Single | 27 | 3 |
1943. Emily Smith, died 14th March 1943 24 Mountfield Road Lewes. Aged ~68. Her husband had died 2 months earlier
PHOTO ?? Does Bob Gunn have any memories of her ??. Does Leonard have any photos of his grandparents?