Emily Trelfer 1874 - 1943

1874. Emily Trelfer is born Brighton Dec 22/10/1874 to parents George Trelfer & Emily nee Hayllar

I wonder if she knew that not only her father & grandfather, but also 2 greatuncles spent long periods in the Brighton Workhouse, likely dying there.

1881C. Emily Trelfer at 6 Barrowcliffe Cottages Brighton with parents George, 24, jeweller, Emily 24 laundress & siblings Nelly & Amelia , all b. Brighton. her future husband, John Smith, was living at 3 Barrowcliffe Cottages in this census.

TRELFER, George Head Married M 24 1857 Jeweller Working
Brighton, Sussex    
TRELFER, Emily Wife Married F 24 1857 Jeweller Working Wife Laundress
Brighton, Sussex    
TRELFER, Emily Daughter Single F 6 1875 Scholar
Brighton, Sussex    
TRELFER, Nelly Daughter Single F 4 1877
Brighton, Sussex    
TRELFER, Amelia Daughter Single F 2 1879
Brighton, Sussex

1891C. Almost certain she is Emily Trelfer, 17, mistranscribed as Trager!, working in Hove as a domestic servant

POSTLETHWAITE, Cornelius Head Married M 20 1871 Confectioner & Green Grocer
Brighton, Sussex  
POSTLETHWAITE, Hepzibah Wife Married F 22 1869
Eastbourne, Sussex  
TRAGER, Emily Servant Single F 17 1874 Domestic Servant
Brighton,

or, maybe calling herself Kate Trelfer, 18, working as a domestic in Preston.

1891C. She is missing from the family at 1 Boss Garden Brighton. 3 more siblings have been born 1882-1889. Also living with them is George Hayllar, Emily's maternal grandfather.

TRELFER, George Head Married M 34 1857 Working Jeweller
Brighton, Sussex  
TRELFER, Emily Wife Married F 34 1857 Ironer
Brighton, Sussex  
TRELFER, Ellen Daughter Single F 14 1877
Brighton, Sussex  
TRELFER, Amelia Daughter F 12 1879
Brighton, Sussex  
TRELFER, Elizabeth Daughter F 9 1882
Brighton, Sussex  
TRELFER, Florence Daughter F 7 1884
Brighton, Sussex  
TRELFER, Alice Daughter F 2 1889
Brighton, Sussex  
HOYLLAR, George H Boarder Single M 60 1831 Jobbing Carpenter
Brighton, Sussex

1899. Emily Trelfer married John Smith Dec 1899 Brighton . According to family legend, they actually met in Coventry!, but this now altered with the discovery that John's sister, also an Emily, was born in Coventry in 1862!

First child John Leslie Smith was born Mar 1900 Brighton .

1901C Emily Smith, 26, living 10 Foundry Street Brighton in 4 rooms with her husband & son . With 4 rooms, it seems odd that she did not take care of any of her younger siblings, Alice, & probably William & Queenie, who were in Brighton Workhouse with their father, George Trelfer.

SMITH, John Head Married M 24 1877 Pier Erector
Scotland Lockerby  
SMITH, Emily Wife Married F 26 1875
Brighton, Sussex  
SMITH, John L Son M 1 1900
Brighton, Sussex

1905. Daughter Phyllis Amelia Smith was born

1911C Emily Smith, 36, living 36 Redcross Street Brighton in 4 rooms with her husband & 3 children . She had been married 11 years, 4 children, all living

SMITH, John Head Married M 33 1878 General Labourer Locksby Scotland Resident  
SMITH, Emily Wife Married11 years F 36 1875 Sussex Brighton  
SMITH, John Son M 11 1900 Sussex Brighton  
SMITH, Winifred Daughter F 8 1903 Sussex Brighton  
SMITH, Phylis Daughter F 5 1906 Sussex Brighton  
SMITH, Leonard Son M 0 (3 MONTHS) 1911 Sussex Brighton  
EDWARDS, Thomas Boarder Married M 47 1864 Labourer Kington Magna Dorset  
CARTER, William Boarder Single M 40 1871 Labourer Hampshire N K

"Leonard didn't live long about 9 months from what we'd call probably a cot death today.   John was known as Jack.   Winifred Elsie Smith died young- actually in 1943! .    She had a foot deformity.   There was another sibling Doris born after the 1911C and she had a son whom she called Leonard, after her dead brother.   Cousin Leonard is still alive and kicking and lives just outside Newhaven in Sussex"

Leonard C Smith died Brighton Dec 1911

So, 4 children survived childhood, John/Jack,Winifred, Phyllis & Doris

Doris M Smith was born Brighton Jun 1913. She married 1936 Herbert Fuller & had a son Leonard, still alive in 2013.

1939 Register 24 Mountfield Road, Lewes

Emily Smith 22 Oct 1874 Female Unpaid Domestic Duties Married 27 2
John Smith 23 Aug 1874 Male Signal Lineman Sr Single 27 1
Winifred E Smith 23 Dec 1902 Female Tailoress Unemployed Single 27 3

 

1943. Emily Smith, died 14th March 1943 24 Mountfield Road Lewes. Aged ~68. Her husband had died 2 months earlier

PHOTO ?? Does Bob Gunn have any memories of her ??. Does Leonard have any photos of his grandparents?

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